"Christianity neither is, nor ever was, a part of the common law." -- Thomas Jefferson, in a letter to Dr. Thomas Cooper, February 10, 1814
We are not all "created equally." We do not get born with a blank slate, in a state of original sin, or in a state of innocence. A blank slate is quasi-psychology. Original sin vs. innocence is a religious vs. philosophical debate. I will have none of that. We just get born.
Our Apgar scores are different at birth. We are not all born with the same one. We are not born in identical states of health. Some babies are sickly. Some are robust. Some are in-between the two. As babies grow, their personalities, behaviors, reactions to stimuli, likes and dislikes all become increasingly evident.
We humans vary from each other in intelligence, abilities, personality traits, and neurology. Whether our differences are determined by genetics or environment or some combination, we do not all have the same chances in life. One child excels in mathematics at school. Another struggles. One child is able to manipulate pens and pencils and art supplies with skill. Another not so much. A third has perception problems which renders their work in art class as slovenly or jumbled.
In our awkward haste to assure ourselves that we are all human beings underneath the scariness of our differences, we are subject to shoving aside those differences and join in the chorus of the litany of "Why won't theys?" sometimes asked in slightly different formats: Why won't they get clean? Why can't they snap out of their funk? Why don't they do something else when after all they themselves admit that what they are doing is not working? Why do they refuse to get off welfare/disability/the public dole and get a job like everybody else? Why don't they just get over "it"? Sometimes I get tired/ don't feel like working/ drink too on weekends but I take care of my responsibilities/ go to work/ control my drinking. What's wrong with them?
And hey, this nation was founded as a christian nation. Women should not abort ever. Kids ought to pray in school. It's majority rules. Atheists/ muslims/ hindus/ blacks/ whites/ drug addicts/ those crazed tea party folks ought to. Such a shame she is fat-- she has such a pretty face. When I get old and incontinent, that is the time to smother me with the pillow. Death panels. [Note: We already have them-- they are called insurance companies. When an insurance company denies coverage for certain conditions or medical procedures, yeah sometimes the patients die]. Political correctness. You think you got it tough now do ya? When I was young.
As individuals, we are alike enough to [hopefully] recognize each other as human. But we retain our differences which ensure that we do not all have equal chances at success. Some folks may give in to their laziness [yes, I've been there but now I can call myself on it and then go do what needs doing]. Some folks with traumatic brain injuries have malfunctioning frontal lobes which cause them to not be able to initiate activities. Some folks may have lesions in the left side of their brains which [dependent upon the location] may dictate limited insight. If you possess insight into your problems, you can thank the left side of your brain. You can set goals and take steps to achieve them? Thank your functioning frontal lobe. Sometimes some of us make excuses for our bad behaviors. Sometimes there is an underlying neurology at work. I know what I don't know today. And I know what I know.
Anchoring-- the act of deciding what is correct and what isn't-- is an attribute or action that occurs within our brains. This anchoring has evolutionary value. When a group of people are able to decide what is acceptable, what isn't, and consequences for those who don't follow the protocol, there is a society, a civilization, a culture, and a legal structure. When anchoring is not working as well as it should in a person, that person is apt to try on many different behaviors and values. When anchoring works too well, a person will hold on to old explanations long after they have been found to be inadequate.
Not every culture is worthy of admiration all of the time. On one hand we have advances in mathematics and medicine, architecture and the arts, education and electricity. On the other we have child brides, forced marriages, genital mutilation of females, genocides, politicians who excel at being reckless with the truth, and shady governmental agencies whose function is to spy on everyone everywhere. Cultures are neither equally admirable nor are they equally humane. In the rush to embrace multi-culturalism, we ignore the truth that not all cultures are "equal" at our own peril.
Any group that thinks of itself as elite or possessing special knowledge and thereby desires to impose its' cultural beliefs and values upon "everyone" is capable of evil. Besides the obvious example of the German Nazis and the Holocaust, there is the conflict between two artificially created tribes in Rwanda, one buddhist sect warring with another buddhist sect in Cambodia, the roman catholic church desiring to impose it's stand on abortion and end of life care upon everyone to the point where hospitals are being bought up all over various communities in the United States by catholic organizations. And the kicker-- now corporations have "feelings," borrowing a phrase from Stephen Colbert.
Catholic employers don't want to have to pay for birth control for its' women employees via employment-based healthcare plans. It doesn't matter that these same catholic employers accept public funding for payment of some hospital bills. It doesn't matter whether or not the women are themselves believers. And yeah there are other reasons for using birth control [pills]-- to control abnormally heavy menses and in the treatment of certain estrogen-stimulated cancers to name two of them. Politicians and employers and religious entities, please remove yourselves from my vagina. What I decide regarding birth control, a morning after pill in the case of rape, abortion in order to save my health or my life or in cases where the fetus is not viable [such as one without a brain stem] is quite frankly none of your damn business. All of those things ought to be between me and my medical doctor. And since when is the life or the health of a woman of less value than the life of a fetus?
With the repeal of D.O.M.A., Governor Huckabee expressed his butt-hurt on Twitter (registered trademark). That is his right. Folks responded by tweeting their agreement or non-agreement, as is their right. In expressing my disagreement with his views, I did not engage in name-calling. Respectful disagreement does not require such. Part of my expressed opinion involved the idea that as adults, we [ought to] get to choose who we love [as long as the lover is another adult]. Some folks are monosexual. Some folks are bisexual. Some folks are asexual. My niece married her [female] lover recently. We came together as a community to publicly affirm and support their marriage.
We are not enslaved by our sexual orientation. Those non-straight folks who are committed a religion which forbids homosexual activity can certainly decide to remain celibate if they choose to do so. In a state of celibacy, the attraction to one gender is not acted upon. [Voluntary celibacy is certainly financially cheaper than attending certain ex-gay seminars and treatments]. Other non-straight folks, along with some straight folks, choose to work within the framework of their chosen religions in order to effect change. Thus we now have Dignity, Integrity, and other groups within the bodies of some religious bodies.
Yeah, I think our government should get out of the marriage business altogether. If two adults are granted legal recognition of their partnership by a judge, that should be referred to as a civil union. If two adults are married by clergy-- catholic, baptist, buddhist, pentecostal, hindu, pagan, jewish, b'nai, muslim, unitarian, or other-- that marriage should be referred to as a marriage. Both should have the same rights and responsibilities.
Whether or not the United States ever was a christian nation, it certainly isn't one now. There are people here of every belief and of no belief. Yet, there are times when the rights of people to practice the religion of their choosing are protected over the rights of people who do not practice a religion.
The removal of bike lanes from a heavily hasidic populated area of Brooklyn so that hasidic men would not be subjected to scantily clad women on bicycles is a law that put religious beliefs over public safety. [http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/brooklyn/bike_war_paint_g7EizkFEZktV3IlNUJosQM]. In another known incident, an attempt was made to apply an anti-sodomy law to two same-gendered adults who were allegedly having anal sex in the privacy of their own residence. [Lawrence vs. Texas, 2003. http://www.religioustolerance.org/hom_laws4.htm]. The actual alleged incident occurred in 1998 and was allegedly reported by a neighbor who may have allegedly harbored ill-feeling toward the two men. A protracted legal battle resulted.
Yes, Rick Santorum [and Governor Mike Huckabee], I certainly do support the right of two consenting adults to engage in sexual expression of their choosing within the privacy of their own residence. I support the right of a woman to abort a fetus-- especially if her life or her health is endangered by the pregnancy. I support the right of two adults to be recognized as a legal domestic partnership or as a marriage-- their choice. I support laws which are lobbied for by religious people so long as those laws do not infringe upon the rights of non-religious people. [Hasidic jews do not "own" the streets of Brooklyn. If they do not wish to be subjected to the ranks of un-modestly garbed bicyclists, they can avert their eyes or better yet, build and reside in a gated hasidic community]. I support the existence of public education as a secular education. [Those that wish a sectarian education can home-school or attend a school which is run by a religious outfit]. I have no desire to force my non-theism on others. I am willing to respect the fact that you believe. Please respect the fact that I do not share your beliefs.
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